And my life with you is the best Once Upon a Time and is going to be the most beautiful Happily Ever After I could ever imagine
(Pochi da…) Another boring scribbles….. you may think, but I believe,
one fine day, maybe after 30 or 40 years passed by or even more, when your skin
were covered with wrinkles, and when
your hairs is coated with silver layer(or maybe hairless), when your gums have no
longer tooth to hold, , when your bones start giving you a crack sound whenever
you move(ouch),you will be taking a sip of coffee, sitting somewhere, maybe in the balcony of our
house, reading my blog, adjusting your
glasses, and at that time you will be smiling reading this line, thinking how
sweet I was and have been in expressing my love <3 you will be proudly showing this to your
grandsons and daughter- look your patti was the one who was crazy on me…. I bet
Or Maybe you are going to be hot grandpa like
this…I wonder…
In
many more years will come, each and every words of this scribbles is going to
be telling its own tale of triumph or sadness, each representing a phase in our life. And at
that moment, a magical silence will embrace us, and I will be waiting for the
moment.
Pssstttt….I
can see that coming
I
can’t hardly believe it has already been almost half a decade, and at the same
time I feel like we have been together forever. Our relationship is probably one of the oddest ones
I've ever known of. You and I are sarcastic people by nature. In fact, I think
it's ingrained into our DNA. I swear, neither one of us can go through a single
day without some smartass comment to the other one. People who aren't use to us
might think we are arguing or being mean but in truth we are having fun seeing
who can come up with "a good one". Odd I know but it works. I think I
would have gotten bored long ago if you didn't verbally spar with.
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2012 |
Baybee, this is going to be our most important anniversary, as we are stepping confidently
into another beautiful phase of our life. It’s going to be remarkable. After
all the years of hurdles, arguments, fights, happiness, ego embraced moments,
love, romance…. It’s not the end of our
fairy tales, it’s going to be the most beautiful beginning.
I still remember how people judge
us when we started off our relationship.They took special effort to actually sit and discussed about what is going on between us. Things were said, actions were done that
assure me in every way I don’t deserve you but for some reason despite
everything you stayed. Then
one day my eyes were opened and instead of pushing you away as I had been, I
realized “He really does love me”. He isn’t like the others, the ones who
were there just when it was convenient but he is here because he loves me.
Every day I look at you and you take my breath away (even if I don’t
always act like it or say it).
I thank you, I thank you for
loving me despite the wrongs I have done, the words I may have spoken to you
that hurt you. I thank you for loving me for me and for making me a better
person. I know I am not always the easiest to put up with and sometimes I let
my prima donna come out. I know I am not perfect and yet you love me
still. I can’t begin to even put into words just how special you make me
feel. Whether it is seeing the love in your eyes for me or just the way
you hold me when I am upset. I
love you not only for who you are but for who you help me to be.
We have made it through things
that some couples never have to go through, if we made it through those things
the rest of our lives will be a breeze. If I could do it all over again I
would choose you again and again and again and again without a doubt. I
love that you have an awesome family, I don’t think I could have gotten any
luckier in the in law department.
One fine day, when one of our daughters ask, "Mom, what one quality
should I look for in a future spouse?", I think I knew what should I
answer her,because there are just too much to list down on things that I love
about you:
1) Your Obsessive Compulsive Disorders(OCD)- you likes perfection and Im more artistic,while u expect straight lines , I will be adoring curves…and the
opposites attracts. <3 well sometimes I know you have to put up with my
messy behavior. Bear with me darling, I'm learning, but a little bit of curves doesn’t
hurt.
2) You are the best critic I had ever had. You will never encouraged me to do something, instead u critic me to the max(sarcastically). You know how Leela works, I don’t run on motivation, instead I run on challenges. You always challenge my capacity so that I will come out with best version of Me by accepting your challenges.
3) Your brilliant mind — You have never fail to challenge me and sparkconversations with me to elevate my own way of thinking. God has given him such an ability to study, understand, retain and teach.
4) Your beautiful sharp eyes — they are the color of
golden honey and they are captivating! Nahhh… he is not the romantic type,but when he
gets into the mood, his eyes does the talking.
5) Your principles- when people around you thinks that
you are sarcastic, I can think the
way you think and put up with those,
cause I know you are rather rational than emotional.
6) You have never fancied over me-
and I love that. It gives me motivation to
lift myself further and the transformation within the years from being a plain
jane to be almost classy woman. Thank
You love, but yet you still haven't fancied over me …(sigh!!!)
7) How Hardworking you are to proviide the best for our future
8) How you have never give up on us when I always try to
9) You have never Overdo
10) Your music sense
Well,
I have always thought the best proposal is when a man goes down his feet with
fireworks, rose petals, violins in front
of gasping and tearful crowd, Your essence, your being, Just
takes me away...Back to a time way back.Back when charming princes In shining
armor, on white horses,Flourished, their swords,Making the princesses swoon.You
do that to me,Make me laugh, and fret,And swoon, on occasion.But without a
sword,Or a great white horse,Or a armor,You are still a prince.And my
prince,Whom I'd swoon over,Any day.
Happy
Anniversary to :
My
protector when I'm scared
My protector when I'm scared
My steady Rock when i need support
My strength when I'm just too weak
My light when the tunnel is so dark
My positive when I'm negative
My Prayer warrior when I can't pray for myself
My provider
My listener
My Friend
My Love
My all in all who fix up whatever is broken
The one who is going to open the Jar Lids for me
I Love you so much Baybee <3
Loving. Growing. Believing. Trusting. Forgiving. Praying. Being One.
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